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Tuesday, May 17, 2016

Today's miracle

If he was just blind, this would be so much easier.

There. I said it. I see no reason to hide the truth.

That doesn't mean I don't love him as he is. It doesn't mean that I doubt his place in our family. It doesn't mean that I won't do everything I can to help him.

It does mean that I want him to be the victorious person that God promised he would be.

And so I'm becoming one of those moms. One of those parents who is searching out every single therapist or doctor or specialist or *gasp* medication that I can to bring us some relief from his defiant, manipulative, and self-injurious behaviors.

But in the midst of all of this striving, I am also on my knees begging the God who knows him inside and out to please, please bring the promised victory. Today. Now. Right away.

A little over a week ago I was impressed with the thought that I should carefully choose some Scriptures to pray over him daily. I already have a passage that I pray over him just as I do all of the children but this would be a list to keep in his room to audibly pray over him. Every morning, he eagerly snuggles in my lap as I pray these 7 passages over him. We start with the fruit of the Spirit which he has already memorized and often recites with me. His favorite words seem to be perseverance and self-control. Good words for him. We end with a section of the Scripture I have prayed over him nearly from the beginning. Psalm 20:7 is written as, "Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the Lord our God." For the purposes of this daily prayer, I have changed it to read,  "Some trust only in medicine and therapists and their own intelligence, but we trust in the name of the Lord our God." This is not to say that we do not seek the wisdom of those to whom has been given wisdom that we don't have but that our ultimate trust is in the One who gives that wisdom and intelligence.

And then on Sunday, the speaker in our adult Sunday School class continued a series on spiritual authority. He told the story of a time when he taught in a school for children with emotional needs. He and a few other Christian teachers often met to pray before the school day. One day they decided to go around the school and anoint each room with oil, praying over the school, the teachers, and the students. He reported that the student's negative behaviors were significantly less that day. But then, like the Israelites, and like us, this group of praying staff members so quickly forgot and did they continue to anoint the rooms and pray over them every day? No, they did not.

He told this story, not to suggest that anointing someone or something with oil is always going to produce the expected results. It is not a name it and claim it mentality as there also needs to be an intimacy with the Father and a hearing from the Holy Spirit in each situation. However, his story spoke to me. I've been sensing for some time that we should be more purposeful in praying over Victor, his room, and his behaviors. I talked to the Good Doctor about this one day a few weeks ago so we did follow through. That one day.  The Good Doctor had already left this morning so when Victor woke up, I first anointed his door before entering and then again anointed his forehead while praying for him.

Tuesdays are rough days for us. Victor's TVI (teacher of the visually impaired) comes on Tuesdays and we spend most of the 45 minutes listening to Victor scream, "No," while banging his head and running away from us. He is completely defiant and refuses to participate in whatever pre-braille activities she has brought. I usually have to sit in the room with them, playing bouncer and running interference. Today, however, was different. Not perfect, but different. And I had even forgotten to put his weighted vest on, a fact which we did not catch until about halfway through this session. Today he spent the first 15 minutes totally and actively engaged with her, following her directions, and obediently responding to each request. I was even able to leave the room during this time and allow the two of them to interact. The middle 15 minutes were a bit more difficult, more like the past, but then even in the last 15 minutes he allowed her to re-introduce some of the activities she had tried during the middle part of the lesson.

In the midst of visits with behavioral specialists and play therapists, it was refreshing to watch a miracle unfold in front of our eyes. The difference between today's session and the last month of sessions (since transitioning to the intermediate unit from early intervention) was nothing short of miraculous. A miracle this Israelite needed to see today.

I am still confident of this: I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord. Psalm 27: 13 -14

Note to self: Only be careful that you do not forget! Deuteronomy 4:9

1 comment:

  1. Was impressed to share this FCA devotional. May God continue the bless you with wisdom and patience! You are a blessing!

    Ready :
    "For I know the plans I have for you," says the Lord. "They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope."
    - Jeremiah 29:11

    Set :
    At age two, Craig MacFarlane was blinded in a tragic accident. He turned his defeat into victory by becoming a world-class athlete who won over 100 gold medals in sports such as wrestling, track and field, downhill skiing, and even shot a 91 in golf! Craig can't see, but he has a powerful vision that fuels his drive to overcome.

    Even though we can't see or predict the future, we need to face tomorrow with confidence, because God will take care of us and give us a hope. The key is to have a God vision not just a good vision. A God vision is seeing what's on God's heart and placing onto our heart. A God vision is a drive and passion that it is birthed deep in our souls and changes the way we live and compete. When we have a God vision, we can Rise Up Tomorrow.

    If you want to Rise Up Tomorrow, answer these three questions:
    Is your God vision too small?

    If your vision doesn't terrify you, then it is too small. A God vision should be so huge that you are bound to fail unless God steps in.

    Is your God vision too narrow?

    If your vision doesn't include others, then it is too narrow. A God vision has to include others like friends and teammates.

    Is your God vision just a daydream?

    If your vision doesn't get accomplished, then it is just a daydream. A God vision always gets done.
    Discover God's vision for your life and Rise Up Tomorrow!

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    Go :
    As a competitor, do you have a God vision? Write it down.
    Is your vision too small? Is your vision too narrow? Is your vision just a daydream? Explain.
    How can you Rise Up Tomorrow?

    Workout :
    Amos 3:7; Proverbs 29:18

    Overtime :
    God, help me to Rise Up Tomorrow. The future is unknown, but I trust You with it. In Jesus' name, Amen.

    About the Author :
    Dan Britton serves as FCA's Executive Vice President of International Ministry and has been on FCA staff since 1991. Dan played professional indoor lacrosse for four years for the Baltimore Thunder. He has coauthored four books, One Word That Will Change Your Life, WisdomWalks, True Competitor, and Called to Greatness; and he is the author and editor of twelve FCA books. He still plays and coaches lacrosse and enjoys running marathons. He and his wife Dawn reside in Overland Park, Kansas, with their three children: Kallie, Abby and Elijah. You can e-mail Dan at dan@fca.org and read his blog at WisdomWalks.org